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In the film and television dramas and reality, you can’t ignore the morbidity of “daddy boyfriend”


“Daddy Boyfriend in Movies and TV Shows” has been hotly searched. First of all, regardless of who created this topic and the purpose of the creation, whether “Daddy Boyfriend” in movie and TV plays is a healthy sexual relationship.

Searching for “Daddy” will get a lot of related hot searches, some are Daddy + film and television drama roles, and some directly label certain stars.

Obviously the answer is no. A healthy intimate relationship is established by two adults with independent personalities and mental health. Sometimes the relationship regresses to the state of young children and sprinkles a little sweetness with each other. That is a beautiful main theme. Sprinkle some sugar and salt to increase the interest of life. An adult finds a opposite sex for him (her) to be a father and mother. It is called a father boyfriend and a mother girlfriend. Care and care are meticulous. It is psychologically immature in itself. It is caused by psychological stagnation in childhood due to some reasons. period.

For example, He Canyang (“The Next Stop is Happiness”), as long as he does not violate the law, he will accompany you everywhere. The woman Cai Minmin is already an adult woman, and she wants He Canyang to help her “rescue the trapped small animals”-the plush toys in the doll machine. Children grow up to seven or eight years old can already distinguish between reality and imagination, and no longer give toy dolls life, do you think that Cai Minmin, who has reached the age of a person, is mentally mature? In another sweet pet drama “Dear, Love”, Han Shangyan often babbles like a child, and behaves like a child. All the recognized sweet pet fragments all mention the words that Tong Nian said when playing games. : “My children, I will take care.” Adults are treated as children, the normal feeling should be degraded and underestimated, it is not sweet, and adult women do not need this kind of fake “favor.”

There is a father boyfriend promoted by the account on Weibo.

The sweet pet play of “Daddy Boyfriend” has its social foundation, which is related to the hot topic of “widowed parenting” in recent years. In widowed parenting, the anxious mother clings to the child, the father ’s absence and loss of position lead to a lack of fatherly love, and the daughter does not get the fatherly love that can fully meet the psychological needs, and thus cannot be fixed to this psychological need in adulthood. When looking for a boyfriend, turn to the boyfriend for the love you want from your father.

Movies and TV series are meant to reflect social reality, and describing and displaying pathological relationships is an important part of it. However, film and television works should be conscious when displaying pathological relationships, and have a deep understanding of the reasons for their production. “Dad boyfriend” sweet pet play is sweet and sweet, but it does not see “pathological”, but instead “appears” with appreciation. “Sugar”, describing the pathology as an enviable beauty, what can be praised?

Returning to the question at the beginning of the chapter, if this hot search topic was created by Bao Mou or someone related to his interests, his heart would be stunned. The physical and psychological ages of minor children are not mature, and there is no relationship between middle-aged men and minor girls. In the “Daddy Boyfriend” sweet pet show, both parties are adults, and their physical age is mature but not psychologically mature. There is an essential difference between the two.

□ Cuihong (Columnist)

Beijing News Editor Wu Longzhen Proofreading He Yan

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