I feel tired with the saying, "Money is nothing important. Where can I carry it when I die?"
In my opinion, that statement was uttered from a fool, blindly believed by a fool. All are just justifying and making excuses for the bad life we created. Try asking if not money, how can you bring your children to access the advanced educational environment. What kind of parent are you?
Sick parents must stay in hospital, money you don't have a penny to pay. Yeah, keep the attitude of money is not important, but what kind of child are you?
Money can be just paper, but it makes your life easier. The environment may not be perfect. But the more imperfect, the more it creates you more opportunities. The only problem is whether you see the opportunity or not?
Here are 7 small reasons that make your life not better, see if you make any mistakes in this!
1. You believe in the words of those who "don't get better"
Those who don't get better are required to have "co-workers", that's why they want to pull you down, that's why they want you to "not get better".
If you are better, they are lonely. If you progress, they are stuck. They will be depressed and do not know what to do with their failed life.
Therefore, on the surface they show sympathy, showing that they are good brothers. But in my heart, I was happy, because there were people living in that dark hole.
2. No like-minded people
Your life doesn't get better if you're only surrounded by losers. On the other hand, lack of like-minded people.
"Assimilation" is the inevitable rule of life. Black near ink near the bright lights. If you are surrounded by people who "don't get better", you won't get better soon enough.
Personal advice, because I didn't find a like-minded person before. So I went to the internet, connected with like-minded people. Learn from people who make their lives better. Regardless of those who are unfamiliar, never met, or halfway around the world.
3. You think you have no special talent
Not many people are born with special talents. Some are oriented by parents. Some people were interested in something from an early age. Also by doing it over and over, doing it back and forth, they just followed a certain skill, which we call special talent.
You don't need special talent to succeed. You need to find what you are interested in, consider its potential, pursue it, and continually improve your steps.
Your life is better with such things. Not special talent!
4. You have no counselors
Today there is a great form to learn, that is, coaching. People take years to learn and experience, and you only take a few sessions to absorb knowledge.
Of course, if you want people not to teach you all all things people have. But in return you will have enough knowledge, as well as energy and inspiration to embark on new things.
Find yourself the trusted advisers in the field you want to find out. It's a way for your life to "get better" in the fastest way.
5. You are satisfied with what you have no matter what
If your success is rich, you will not be satisfied if your debt is profound, interest is paid monthly.
If your success is healthy, you will not be satisfied if you wear a weak body.
If your success is a lot of experience, you will be unhappy if you just sit and experience everything through Facebook all day.
Be satisfied with what you have when you get old. You are young, you must have desires, dreams, and ambitions to get what you want in life.
6. Seeing difficulties is giving up
I see many people who are strange, go to the gym, pay for rent, but always want to practice less than what PT requires.
What is the result? Their weight did not change. The amount of body fat has not changed. Muscle mass does not develop. The more they practice, the more they become lazy and lazy.
Many people find it difficult to give up. Draw a bunch of ideas, but work on it is lazy. If they keep their attitude like that, they will never get better at the things they plunge into.
7. Do not try to strive for when you are young
Young, everything is so simple. This opportunity passes, the other chance comes again. This person leaves, the other appears again.
But when you have maturity, at the same time age is a barrier that separates you more from opportunities.
No one wants to recruit a 40-year-old programmer with an old head.
No one wants to recruit a fastidious 45-year-old sister as a receptionist.
There is no packing place that wants to take the 35-year-old with a cunning and cunning head.
The older you are, the more chances are closed. So when you're young, try to do a lot of things, get a lot of experience, and equip it for years to come.
Hope you are not too old when reading this article. Those are 7 reasons that seem small but accidentally make your life not better. What do you think you're stuck with? If yes, what is the reason why you have it? Find the cause and quickly fix it before it's too late!